A marriage proposal from the love of your life is something very special and will be one of the happiest days of your life. Once this step has been taken, the big wedding planning begins. It is customary in America, among other countries, for the bride-to-be to prepare personalized bridesmaid gifts for her closest confidants, inviting them to become her bridesmaids.
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WHAT IS A BRIDESMAID PROPOSAL?
A proposal for bridesmaids is a special and meaningful way to ask your closest friends to be an important part of your wedding.
There are many ways you could ask your loved ones to join your wedding party, such as giving them a personalized gift, presenting them with an elegant card or even planning a fun activity together. You could show your best friends how much they mean to you by giving them a heartfelt gift while sending them an official invitation to join your wedding party.
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The perfect time for the ultimate bridesmaid proposal is right after the official engagement. Ideally, a wedding date has already been set. You should give your best girls enough time to coordinate their own dates. Around 6-9 months before the wedding is ideal.
You can also gift your bridesmaids with a beautiful bridesmaid bouquet and matching corsage flower on the day of the wedding to give them the ultimate bridal accessory. With roses from Infinity Flowerbox, everyone will have a reminder of the good times and your friendship for years after your wedding.
HOW MANY BRIDESMAIDS SHOULD YOU HAVE?
When deciding how many bridesmaids you should have, there is no such thing as "too many" or "too few". It is important and good to know that there is no perfect number. You can choose as many bridesmaids as you like. However, there are a few things to keep in mind that can help you decide.
Most brides and grooms try to have a symmetrical wedding party, meaning that the bride and groom have the same number of bridesmaids and groomsmen, especially for the entrance to the ceremony. If your groom has five groomsmen, you effectively have five bridesmaids. This way you can easily narrow down the wedding party.
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However, if you have a different number of bridesmaids and groomsmen, that's fine too. You'll just have to figure out the best way for the bridal party to get together during the processional.
Another way to determine the number of bridesmaids is to look at the wedding budget and decide what costs you would like your bridesmaids to cover. It is common for bridesmaids to pay for their dress, shoes and alterations. Depending on your budget, you can decide if you want the bridesmaids to do their own hair and makeup or if you would rather have it done professionally; at your expense or at their expense.
Last but not least, you should also choose reliable bridesmaids who are willing to attend the wedding and all other events.
When choosing bridesmaids, the bride usually opts for her sister(s), cousins, best friends or roommates. By taking all of these factors into consideration, you can choose the perfect number of bridesmaids for the ultimate bridal shower.
HOW TO PUT TOGETHER THE PERFECT GIFT FOR YOUR BRIDESMAIDS
Find out below how you can put together the perfect gift or experience for your favorite girls' bridesmaid proposal.
A PERSONALIZED GIFT BOX FOR THE BRIDESMAID'S PROPOSAL
If you want to give the ultimate bridesmaid proposal gift box, this guide will help you. Start by planning small thank-you gifts for your bridesmaids according to your budget.
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First, choose the perfect box, basket or container for the gift to your friends. We recommend choosing a large rectangular or square gift box in a feminine, light pink or the theme color of your wedding. Next, fill the box with soft, white tissue paper for all your precious items to rest on.
First, place a wedding invitation, a save-the-date or a handwritten card with the wedding details inside. You can also include a card with the question "Will you be my bridesmaid?".
Another option is to write the question on the top of the box or on the inside of the lid. You can have beautiful stickers printed with the question, or write the question yourself in a beautiful font.
Once you've taken care of the wedding details and the special bridesmaid question, you can start putting in all the pretty keepsakes for your bridesmaids-to-be. Add a scented candle, a meaningful necklace for the bridesmaid to perhaps wear on your wedding day, and one of our Infinity Single Rose Box with a unique infinity rose encased in a beautiful box.
For a spa-inspired bridesmaid proposal, fill the gift box with beauty items that will pamper your bridesmaids. Line the gift box with a soft bathrobe so they can wrap up cozy on the morning of the wedding reception. A sleeping mask, e.g. made of silk, with an inscription like "Bridesmaid" on the front goes well with this. Add a few moisturizing face masks, scrubs and creams. No matter which items you choose - your bridesmaids will be delighted with this gift and use it to get ready for your big day.
FLOWERS WITH A CARD
A simpler, yet elegant way to propose to your friends is to send them a beautiful bouquet of flowers along with a card asking them to be your bridesmaids.
This option is particularly suitable if your chosen friends live far away and you want to give them a main gift.
At Infinity Flowerbox you will find beautiful rose arrangements that will still look great years after your wedding. You can choose from a variety of box sizes and rose colors. You can personalize the flower boxes from size medium with an inscription on the box and add a card that says "Will you be my bridesmaid?"
Your bridesmaids will be delighted and appreciate this heartfelt gesture.
AN ACTIVITY AS A BRIDESMAID PROPOSAL
If you don't want to put together individual gifts for your closest girlfriends, then another wonderful idea is to plan a special activity or short trip together. Have fun and be creative with this idea. Plan an unforgettable surprise at the end of your activity where you ask those present the big question: "Will you be my bridesmaid?"
A private escape room experience is ideal for adventurous groups. It helps to bond and strengthen your teamwork. Perhaps you can find an escape room with a love or wedding theme.
Once you have mastered the escape room, hang a large banner on the wall with the big question about the bridesmaid proposal written on it. They will be surprised and full of anticipation to celebrate your big day together.
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A relaxed option would be to plan a short trip. Invite your girls to relax away from everyday life. Get refreshing, sparkling drinks and matte manicures. Find a special place and a quiet intimate moment to ask them to be your bridesmaids.
CONCLUSION
There is a lot to consider when choosing your bridesmaids. This guide will help you plan your bridesmaids' proposals. Show them how important they are to you by making them feel special. Let them know your gratitude and appreciation for their participation and support on your special day to make it unforgettable for everyone.
Rosy greetings 🌹